Hung Up

Hung Up

I Need A Word For This

In the same instant that I can’t understand dwelling over something … I will dwell over my own shit longer, harder, further.

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Hunter Harris
May 22, 2026
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There should be a word for when you hear someone else’s insecurity — like the way one specific type of white girl on TikTok makes them jealous, or the person who always felt that they didn’t know how to order well at a restaurant, or even the way their glasses look in photos — and it’s just the dumbest thing you’ve ever heard. Not in a cruel way, like you’ll listen and affirm their point of view, but ultimately, let’s be serious. It’s just not that deep. Your own insecurities, however … I mean my goodness … I tend to them and nurture them and gorilla grip them so tightly.

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